The BBC tonight screened an overwhelming documentary entitled Being Mum and Dad, focussing on Rio Ferdinand's battle to deal with the loss of his wife and raise his three young children. Ferdinand lost his wife Rebecca to cancer in 2015, and this documentary charts his attempts to come to terms with such an absurd and arcane circumstance, while at the same time providing for his kids. It is an utterly extraordinary piece of filmmaking, heartwrenching in its portrayal of Ferdinand's plight and vital in the conversation it will trigger about openness and honesty among men who have lost their wives.
Among the most moving scenes was this, as Ferdinand broke down while talking to counselors about the prospect of starting group session with he and his children. The confusion, heartbreak and frustration is overwhelming.
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The reaction online was overwhelmed and overwhelming.
Incredibly brave. Well done @rioferdy5 and all involved. Powerful. #BeingMumAndDad
— Joey Barton (@Joey7Barton) March 28, 2017
Thank you, @rioferdy5. I'm sad to my bones for you & for every family that suffers a loss like yours. I'll hold mine tighter because of you.
— Dave Moore (@DaveTodayFM) March 28, 2017
Such a raw, honest and loving documentary #BeingMumAndDad well done @rioferdy5 you gave yourself to that.
— Gabby Logan (@GabbyLogan) March 28, 2017
Tough watch. @rioferdy5's #BeingMumAndDad is brave & powerful TV
— Dan Walker (@mrdanwalker) March 28, 2017
Fantastic and very moving programme pal.@rioferdy5 legend in football and life 👍
— Ray Parlour (@RealRomfordPele) March 28, 2017
Saw a screening of @rioferdy5 doc and cried about 4 times. It's thought-provoking, important and hugely emotive. Try and see it @BBCOne at 9 https://t.co/H3v9zjPejz
— Gary Lineker 💙💛 (@GaryLineker) March 28, 2017
So much respect for @rioferdy5. Being Mum and Dad. Watch it on @BBCOne tonight at 9pm 👊🏾❤️
— Danny Welbeck (@DannyWelbeck) March 28, 2017
This film is just about the bravest thing we've seen a footballer do, and we urge you to watch it.
